Saturday, June 11, 2005

Anger..

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Recently, i came across a blog of a friend..She discussed sumthing about anger management..put in her opinion..why she dont get angry that much etc..That discussion of hers made me to think...WHY AM I GETTING ANGRY??

Hmm..after thinking about it for almost a day now..i manage to single out couple of reasons why i get angry..i get angry when sumone underestimate me..i get angry when sumone accuse me of sumthing i didnt do...i get angry when my loved one failed to notice me..i get angry when my trust thrown in dust bin..i get angry when i got fooled..i get angry when my efforts gone unrecognized..i get angry when i fall sick :( i get angry when sumone misuse my poll at the bottom right of this page

May be my expectation is too high..expecting people to be like me..isn't that wrong??.. isn't that sumthing i shouldnt do?? Hmm..one should learn to adept to a situation..rather than expecting the situation to be in favour with us...Rather than having our blood pressure shooting up..we should be learning to handle things calmly..

So..what can i do to reduce my anger, my dissapointments?? Let me check it out..one by one..

  • i get angry when sumone underestimate me <---- tell myself....one day u will know my value..un-cut diamond is far more precious, my fren.
  • i get angry when sumone accuse me of sumthing i didnt do... <-- if u r my fren, if u r my love, if u r my blood, if u r SUMONE to me..u will know me..if u r neither..i just don't give a damn to what u think..
  • i get angry when my loved one failed to notice me.. <-- if u can find sumone who can love u more than i do..congrats!!! but then, i will still be there for u even when all the relationship in the world left u..
  • i get angry when my trust thrown in dust bin..<-- telling myself: stop trusting people darling..grew up!! and if it still happens..threw them out before they do that to me..
  • i get angry when i got fooled..<-- come on..i am smarter than that..isn't it?? if i let people to fool me again..it only means that i had forgotten the wizard in myself..wake up!!
  • i get angry when my efforts gone unrecognized.. <-- if i stop my efforts..it means i am cheating myself..come on..i am talented..must i give up for these lamers?? no way...
  • i get angry when i fall sick :( <-- just compare myself with patients with cancer, whom i am now seeing..i am better off isn't it?
  • i get angry when sumone misuse my poll at the bottom right of this page <-- i just don't understand the excitment behind abusing the poll..however, a simple note for the 'fren' : "dear lamer, if u r reading this..just want to tell u that u may try millions of times to sabotage the poll..but it will remain there and i will fix it everytime u had done ur dirty job..just like taking care of my dog, Dumeen.." GOT IT??

:) I feel much better now..


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10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Atikemah koveh paderah pennagalum atikemah koveh padereh annum valeh mudiyathu ;...

tulipspeaks said...

Nandri

Anonymous said...

lol.. sure alot of comments have been removed by admin :P , hmm :) good blogs attratcs good comments , :) i mean i didnt say this is bad blog so it attracted bad comments,, :) just... heheh :) aww it feels so good to know am not the only one in this side of goodness :) ...

- U know who am i -

tulipspeaks said...

:) yea..i know who you are..

i removed 2 posts coz it is repetition..not bad comment..lol

i mean i didnt say this is bad blog so it attracted bad comments, <-- my dear anonymous friend, it is my diary..what i wrote here might hurt some people..might ring some bell to someone..might touch some people's feelings..but then again, it is my blog..my share own experience and feelings..i didn't comment how you should write your blog, so..please don't comment on my writings :)

aww it feels so good to know am not the only one in this side of goodness :)<-- others should say that, be humble ;)

Thanks for visiting..do come again

Anonymous said...

niceee :P

tulipspeaks said...

Thanks again

Anonymous said...

MIoWzz.. * YAWNS * humble? lol :) ring ring , hello ? im sorry :) ... lol :)

tulipspeaks said...

MIoWzz.. <-- i think so most people reading the comment should know who you are by now :)

Anonymous said...

lol , of course , thats why i put , hello , im sorry line there :P

/me waiting for someone to call again in nite n cry for forgiveness :)

tulipspeaks said...

/me waiting for someone to call again in nite n cry for forgiveness :) <--ade pavi...gggrrr...ellam neram thaan..that someone didn't cry, okie?? jangan nak tambah-tambah