Monday, September 26, 2005

==MeMoRieS==


It is a movie (Tamil) i had been looking forward to watch in theatre, thanks to 'someone'..i got no one to watch the movie with me..in the end, resolved to watch it with help of the Net (hope you get what i mean..) Music by AR Rahman was superb..need i to say more?? :P

Its about a couple having fun and fights..broke up..reunited..Kind of usual story line, but there is a unique characteristic in this movie..
memories which were given shape..the memories of the hero takes the shape of the heroine and vice versa..when the couples break up..these memories will strive hard to reunite them..

Kind of unbelievable to see our memories taking shape of another human being..but when i think carefully..it is something that got truth in it..


I asked several questions to myself....aren't the memories of our loved ones the one we hold on with us till our last breath? whenever we fought with our loved ones, aren't the memories are the one make us realise how much we love them? aren't these memories the one distrub our sleep? our life? aren't these memories the one which will bring us to our loved ones when everything else failed??


When we talk about ending a relationship and moving on..we will tell ourselves (and others) that i am forgetting this person..i am leaving all the memories of this person..but have we ever ask ourselves how much truth there is in it?? If anyone asks me, i would say..we are cheating ourselves when we say we are burying those memories, when we say we are no longer thinking about them..there is no way we could do it..

The memories are here to stay..it is just a matter of us acknowledging it or not..

26 comments:

Me said...

me first...come back later...

southpaw said...

****When we talk about ending a relationship and moving on..we will tell ourselves (and others) that i am forgetting this person..i am leaving all the memories of this person..but have we ever ask ourselves how much truth there is in it?? If anyone asks me, i would say..we are cheating ourselves when we say we are burying those memories, when we say we are no longer thinking about them..there is no way we could do it..***absolutely amutha, its simply not possible as long as u don't get ur brains washed alongwith ur other routine memories. Like u so very rightly said in the last line, that its just the matter of us acknowledging it or not, people who don't do it claim to have buried and forgotten everything and people like me do all sorts of wierd things to keep those memories away.
Fantastic post and a perfect title!!!

Me said...

**The memories are here to stay..it is just a matter of us acknowledging it or not..

so true...it oftens makes me frustated, unhappy, but to tell u the truth I enjoy it... remembering the happiest moments as well as the bitter moments I shared with her...

Keshi said...

wow seems like a nice movie...wuts the title?

memories bring ppl together...true...but memories can also break em apart...dun u think? ofcourse it's the memories that keep us 'reminding' how much we love each other and make us look forward to more times with them. But its the same memories that want me to keep away from some ppl...that wants me to forget soo hard even tho I cant sometimes...that makes me wanna break down and cry...sometimes I wish there was no such thing as memories!

Keshi.

visithra said...

i love the songs just cant stand the actor cum director - so am undecided on watching it - hummm

Arz000n said...

how much truth there is in it??
Believe me...there is no truth at all....only if you were in true love and flirting around.
I still cant forget those...its been more than 10 months now....

we are cheating ourselves when we say we are burying those memories
Oh my god!!
I dont know how u came up with that...
you know I Was so feeling bad to even think about someone at this moment, when I know I dont have any kind of links to ma ex...coz I say to myself...how can I have feelings for someone when I said I LOVED HER. Dont you think thts cheating? How can you just erase someone and give place to someone else that soon.

when we say we are no longer thinking about them..there is no way we could do it..
You stole this from ma mind..
I totally agree with you...

Oh boy...That day K00kie piez shared her views on relationship...
This post of yours..

People are not different ffrom wht I think all the time. They are very much like me...

Then why those people are different who are out there to hurt me all the time :((

Hugzzz am000nie piez and thanks for this awesome post of yours.

Hope things are doing good at ur end...take care
and have a nice day ahead
hugz

PuNeEt said...

hey in top 10
Not bad actually...
Will read n come back on this...
Cheers

tulipspeaks said...

south

ts simply not possible as long as u don't get ur brains washed along with ur other routine memories.

i do feel that, those memories with our loved ones are not 'programmed' in such way that they can easily be washed away..and if they could be washed away, i don't think they are memories at all..

thanks for sharing my views in this..thanks again for the compliments *wink wink

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

av000nie

memories kill us sometimes..leaving us breathless after each encounter..but even i enjoy the 'near-death' experiences..

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

k000kie

muuaxx babyyyyy..its Ah Aah (Anbe Aruyire)..directed and played by the same person (SJ Surya)..

hmm..i got what you mean dear..there are sweet memories and bitter memories..each and every one of us have it..lets take the example of this movie...only the sweet memories 'live' and tries to bring them closer..its just like telling us "only sweet/good memories will (or should) live with us"..

but i know its way too ideal for us..we are humans, we have both the memories with us..but which one do we want remember? up to us..

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

visithra..the songs are superb..too bad i had to watch it over the Net :(

lolz..even i had problem accepting SJ Surya as an actor..feel he is better off as a director (ONLY) :P

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

hmm..z000nie..

i really took a lot time reading through your comments over and over again while thinking what i should tell in reponse to that..

I still cant forget those...its been more than 10 months now....
i didn't forget anything for almost a year now :)

how can I have feelings for someone when I said I LOVED HER. How can you just erase someone and give place to someone else that soon.
you can still develpp feelings for someone new..it certainly doesn't mean to forget or to cheat on our memories on the previous love we had..but it takes time to accept a new person into our lives..

when we say we are no longer thinking about them..there is no way we could do it..
You stole this from ma mind..

i guess this is what going on inside mind of all of us..

People are not different ffrom wht I think all the time. They are very much like me...

Then why those people are different who are out there to hurt me all the time :((

awww...me gives a huge hugggggggss to z000nie..

=am000nie=

Michelle said...

memories are sum'in tht r etched in our mind fo'eva sum'in we will always cherish...i luv capturin small lill things tht happen in my life cuz i know 10 yrz down da line m gna smile lukin @ em


;)

PuNeEt said...

Good post dear

aren't the memories of our loved ones the one we hold on with us till our last breath?
Yes that’s so true… memories are the witness of the days we have lived ;-)

whenever we fought with our loved ones, aren't the memories are the one make us realise how much we love them?
Bingooo… yes very much

aren't these memories the one distrub our sleep?
Not mine… I enjoy my sleep thoroughly untill that stupid alarm clock wakes me ;-)

that i am forgetting this person..i am leaving all the memories of this person…
No no… u can’t forget nor can u leave the memories behind…
We can just move out of a relationship… but the past stays with us…
Wherever we go… the impact might be diluted but its still there

Good 1 dear
Take care
Cheers

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

we are cheating ourselves when we say we are burying those memories

well.....true dat!

u can't forget the one u love(d) ever!!!!

i still havent been able to forget ma love....and the saddest part is...we both hafta be in touch all our life!

anyway...cheerzzz!

musings (m000nie) said...

awww am00... i think we should cherish the memories rather than cry over thm... wat say???

tulipspeaks said...

michelle

yes..we definitely going to remember it..no matter if its 10 years or 20 years..and even that day, we going to smile at it..cry at it..choice is ours..

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

puneet

memories are the witness of the days we have lived
well said puneet..i shall quote you! :)

I enjoy my sleep thoroughly untill that stupid alarm clock wakes me ;-)
rofl..

We can just move out of a relationship… but the past stays with us…
Wherever we go… the impact might be diluted but its still there

puneet..is there something call 'moving out' of a relationship? hmm..i don't think so..the relationship is still there until we remember the memories..and as the memories are suppose to be life-long..i don't think we could possibily 'move out' of a relationship.

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

cheesy..

welcome back..been a while since i saw your profile pic appearing in my comment section..cute..

i still havent been able to forget ma love....and the saddest part is...we both hafta be in touch all our life!
oh baby..come..let me give u a huge hugggggggsss..

this is going to be hard..to see our loved one right in front of us, but we are helpless, both in emotional and physical aspects..

it really need a lot of strength to ignore those sweet memories with he/she around us all the time throughout our life..

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

m000nie

as much as i personally wanna cherish them, i do cry over them..guess its a normal reaction to the memories which kept my love alive or should say still keeping it alive?

tears flow, heart crush..but sweet words, powerful sight, gentle touch and extraordinary kiss will be parts of the memories which will continue to decorate my life..

=am000nie=

Keshi said...

heyy Amu hows ya? thanks for that movie info I will get it soon ;-)


yup it's too unreal when one says we have to foucs on the good memories...u cant expect each and everyone's memories to be always as good as this movie couple's memories...in this movie mebbe they had more good memories that brought them together, which is great...but in real, there r millins of ppl who dun fit in that category when it comes to love...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

millions**

Pinki said...

Baatein bhool jaati hain, yaadein yaad aati hain...."

Nice blog u have, and an awesome template I must say!!!

tulipspeaks said...

@k000kie..fine here,just kind of busy with studies and all..

:) watch the movie..kind of vulgar at first, but i guess we just need to take the good and leave the bad..

@pinki
welcome to my blog and blog-o-sphere..

=am000nie=

Keshi said...

Amu ok thanks :)

I know ur busy...cos u sound so...hehe...see u soon HUGGGGZ!

Keshi.

strawy said...

memories haunts too sometimes... makes u cry , laugh ,miss some 1, restless ... wat not ...

nice post
hugss

st000nie