Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Blogs & Bonds

When I started blogging, I knew no one in the blogsphere. I just treated my previous blog as a space to voice out my frustration and to a certain extent, gain some attention I was lacking of. Yes, i succeeded in my mission - I gain not only attention but friendship. Now, that was an added bonus which I never expect in the first place.

I slowly build a network, which consisted of blogmates who knew me through my writing. My writing which reflected my inner desires, feelings, opinions etc brought me wonderful friends. Even now, my YM has a long list of such friends I gain through the blogsphere. I had so much fun exploring into a new world - a world that promised me the wonders of friendship.

However, they have slowly varnished from the blogsphere and those still here don't seem to be passionate about it. No, I'm not talking about a single common platform like Mindsblog or Betweenus, but about the healthy 'blog visits' we used to have, the long chats we used to have in the comment section. Many can be just passed as junks but it was lively. We used to have this small online gatherings in YM voice conference, and it was used to be so damn lovely!!! Gosh.. I'm missing all that now.

You guys are wonderful, leaving me comments which spurred me to write more and more. I should thank the regulars as well as the silent readers. But don't you feel things are getting more and more formal? So formal that we are losing the fun side of blogging?

But I'm missing my old days here. Where are you guys? Where is the passion? Where is the love? Where is the bond?


usws said...

Oh yikes, i'm sorry! For vanishing from here and for being selfish with my time. :( I'm guilty of only remembering to visit bloggies that visit mine in the first place. I'm sorry again!

But it's true, it is getting kinda.. how would you put it, tedious? I'm thinking so hard just to come up with something and when i can't, i get all stressed up. It has become so unnatural.

You reminded me, a few of my ex-regulars have disappeared altogether. Maybe i wasn't paying enough attention to them or something. Or started to write things that they weren't used to reading.. 'formal' stuff like you said.

BYE! But hopefully, not for too long.

Kamigoroshi said...

Sometimes that's all it takes to venture out into places we've never been before for the same experience we want.

Explore ideals, perceptions, people we won't think of trying. Whenever I start to feel bogged down by the weight of my environment, I simply stop, return to why I started (in this case, why I blog) and then find a new place where I can be accepted.

As luck would have it in my case, I found places like the WordPress community and 9rules and it's opened up a whole new world to explore and still be myself.

Killer Blogger said...

owh no no..dont be sad..blogging is a happy world right? lets forget about it keep blogging..dont u happy when someone read ur post? if u happy, then keep blogging..friends come and go, but will come for u later..

v I v E k said...

cool...well, too many blogs to read maa..now political blogs getting more attention edi..but dun worry, ur blog is always attractive wan:) i never fails to read ur post all..hehe
muz start the pay per view..(pay the viewer):p

zewt said...

having been blogging for a year, i think i know what u mean.

i am feeling the fatique already.

as for your friends... guess they found something new?

zewt said...

hmmm... where is my comment?

whAt A LiFe said...

Keep blogging gal, u rock. :p

I enjoy reading ur posts, it's just that i couldn't comment regularly coz need to catch up with other blog friends too, so kind of in a rush. Sorry hor.... But i just wanna tell you that i read ur blog regularly, no doubt....hehehe

Love ya

Cinderella. said...

First I'd really like to know..how long have you been blogging ?

This stagnancy makes me wonder so...though i havent yet arrived at that juncture, and i fervently hope that i dont...

And dear, every relationship has its own time, a time when the initial fizz settles donw to give space to a more stable and solid matter.

YOu may not be having the long conference chats, you maynt be having long comment chats..but that dont mean, you lost your frens na.

Mebbe they're just busy, everyone gets once in a while..give it some time..

Things will bounce back..they always do !

cindy said...

I guess people are getting tired of blogging or leaving comments these days. :P

I know I'm tried of blogging sometimes. Heh!

Solitaire said...

I think when things are new, we get intrigued and pay a lot of attention to them. I was in LOVE with orkut once upon a time. I did everything on Orkut. I had even started using it as an instant messenger. And I would never get bored of it. These days I log on for a fleeting two seconds.

Same thing happened with blogger. As my network started increasing, I got more enthusiastic and refreshed my blog frequently. Now since I dont have internet access for the past 5 days, I feel like people have forgotten about me. Do not get so many visits, and do not get so many comments.

I guess we just need to spice things up a bit!!

Anyway, I will blog roll you and leave you a comment for every new post you have ok? Now smile!!!!

Come check out Hum Tum on my blog. :)


Ratu Syura said...

well, that's the thing about blogging you know.. we gotta have it constantly intriguing for all of us to communicate. i know my blog isn't as interesting as it used to be, and i can see the vast difference in comments. so yeah, be the change you wish to see.

Jeevan said...

I do have sometimes back this YM in conference with blog buddies, but today none is there to even chat. "So formal that we are losing the fun side of blogging?" at first know bloggers it was more fun, but it was least now and it can increase with people interest… lets hope!

(¯`•._.•[Raaji]•._.•´¯) said...

aww.. of course. You are very sweet and i always enjoy reading the blog :-)

tulipspeaks said...

@ usws

lolz. sorry. i didnt mean to pin point anyone. i agree now it has become rather 'tedious' to visit everyone - simply because our blogging network has become bigger and bigger.

@ kamigoroshi

interesting.. may be i should sit down and think again "why i blog". maybe i will find myself an entirely new place!



tulipspeaks said...

@ killer blogger

hahahaha.. tht's right. its a happy happy world

sunshineeeeeeeeeeeee :) :) :)

thanks for the visit, dude!

@ vivek

ennala ithekelam kaase ketkeringe? ish ish..


tulipspeaks said...

@ zewt

hahaha.. ur comment is here. no worries.

as for your friends... guess they found something new?
aww.. my frens have ditched me? :| :|
how could they huh? ish...

@ what a life

thanks! :) :) :)
love ya too!!


tulipspeaks said...

@ cinderella

:) Will be 3 years soon..

thanks for the kind words. really appreciate that. wish to see my old buddies again..

@ cindy

cannot like that la.. ish ish.. :P


tulipspeaks said...

@ solitaire

spice things upp.... yippeee.. *cracking head thinking wht to do!

hahahahaha.. thanks!

will add u up too.

@ ratu syura

i used to debate a lot. but i dont think its relevant anymore and since then, my blogging style has changed. guess, tulipspeaks needs another dramatic change.


tulipspeaks said...

@ jeevan

aise.. come add me in. i'll be online most of the time! ms.amutha@yahoo.com :D

@ raaaji

aww.. thanks dear!